If the Shoe Fits: A Meditative Book Review

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 OVERVIEW: Cindy Elanor Woods is a Plus-sized fashionista with an underlying cynicism due to losing both her parents at a young age. Despite having a degree in fashion design, she is currently jobless until opportunity knocks in the form of a reality dating show -- Before Midnight. Cindy accepts the offer and joins the show looking for the chance to show off her fashion chops but (as the book cover blatantly intimates) she may end up finding love in the process.


COMMENTARY: When you have to endure the pain of a loved one dying at an early age, fairy tales are basically bullshit to you. Because of this perspective, Cindy essentially embodies the experience of the reader and all of us who roll our eyes at Reality Show "Romance". Yes, these shows are an essential papering over of some harsh realities in the world and how love truly comes about. But in that same way, isn't that silhouetted dress, those painful high heels, that brilliant shade of red lipstick? Is it an untruth or an accentuation of the things beautiful? While reality shows accentuate both the drama and beauty of life -- why can't we just say to hell with the drama and accentuate the beauty? 


MEDITATION: Clothes has a therapeutic component to them. Do you have a favorite dress? A favorite pair of heels? Why not just put them on! You don't have to be going anywhere. Just look at yourself in the mirror. Enjoy how it makes you feel. Breathe it in and let that feeling carry you through the rest of the day. 

CHARITABLE: 2 HOURS DRESS FOR SUCCESS ORIENTATION


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